Dear Birth Mother, I just want you to know you are loved, from the bottom of my heart I love you, and yes I know I dont know you yet, but I love you.  You see we are connected and as stupid as that sounds its true.  We have a bond that most mothers wont understand. We put our wants and needs aside to insure that our baby gets the life he or she needs and deserves even though that wasnt with us. I would tell you, you are brave and in a sense you are but to do what you did, what I did, didnt take bravery. You are strong, even though you feel weak and you just want to fall to your knees. You are loving and kind and have more compassion then most people. You are amazing. You are wonderful.  And through all the jumbled thoughts you feel for yourself I hope that you will always know what a great person you are. I know there will be times that you will get those few mean people who will try and discourage you from what you did and I would tell you to ignore them but I know that is easier said then done. I just want to let you know I am here you are not alone, and you have tons of support from people you probably dont know even exist. We are here to help you, to encourage you, to be there for you on your weakest moments. To help you laugh, to hold you while you cry, or listen while you just want to scream.  I know I dont know you yet but I am here for you.